My effect on boys in high school

When I was a sophomore in high school, I went to the homecoming dance with a boy. I later learned he was gay.

When I was a senior in high school, I went to my prom with another boy. I later learned he was gay.

Now from what I understand, gay isn't something one becomes. It's the way someone is. So I won't take the above-mentioned incidents as a reflection of my tendency to permanently turn men off from women. Perhaps I simply gravitate towards gay guys, or maybe they gravitate towards me. At any rate, I won't take offense. At least not until I turn another guy gay.